Pivot

A healthy relationship needs to be prioritized and maintained if it’s going to go the distance. But few couples understand what it takes to keep their most vital relationships healthy and thriving. Usually, by the time couples land in a therapist’s office, it is too little too late.

Years of ineffective patterns, resentments, hurt, and betrayal has built up between them and broken down what once was a passionate and thriving relationship. One or both of them can’t see a way forward, and the pain of their current situation has left them wounded and hopeless. Add to that the current model of couple’s therapy…

ONCE A WEEK FOR AN HOUR WITH ONE THERAPIST

…and you find most partners having the same fight in front of their counselor weekly, but no real change happens. The cycle continues. The kids suffer. The most crucial ingredient of a successful family (a secure relationship between mom and dad) cracks under the pressure of modern-day relationships. The numbers don’t lie.

In America, there are
100 divorces per hour.

So, what’s the fix?

My partner, Darin, and I have been fortunate enough to be married for nearly 25 years. And like all long-term relationships, our pairing faced some very difficult challenges. We struggled mightily in the early years, especially while raising our three kids.

While we worked on our marriage on and off through the years, the busyness of our blended family, combined with the challenges of parenting, difficult life circumstances, and financial pressures, our relationship took hit after hit. Though we loved each other, we found it harder and harder to connect and ended up resentful and alienated from each other. No one showed us HOW actually to have a successful relationship. They only taught us how not to get divorced. Often, this read: Suck it up and move on.

Enter The Pivot Process

Once Darin and I understood our own developmental process, made peace with our pasts, identified our own unique survival patterns, and learned how to be a good parent to ourselves (first); then each of us was able to accept full responsibility for our relationship, and finally, we were able to break the painful cycle we had found ourselves in. We learned how to Pivot. And that knowledge had a ripple effect on our ENTIRE FAMILY. It healed our longstanding problems, resolved our entrenched resentment with one another, and gave us a path forward.

The result.

Our fights (that used to last three days) can now be resolved in less than 30 minutes with just a conversation.

Why Pivot?

Trust is high between us, our intimacy is better than ever, and we are working towards shared goals and dreams. Our lives have been changed. The lives of our children have been changed. And so have the lives of the clients I work with. I am a Master Coach with Pivot, leading others to find their relational freedom. It’s the best work I could ever do. Let me help you “Pivot” and heal the most important relationships of your life.

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